Wednesday, July 14, 2021

Be a person who gets what they want!




Here is an interesting topic that I have found myself discussing several times this week. The law of attraction says, "that which is like unto itself is drawn". As an introduction (oversimplification) let's talk about my window again. 


I wanted a window, I wanted an office, I wanted a place to see clients, that would be big enough to have groups (after Covid-19 is not a barrier). I wanted these things. I felt the desire and because I focused on my thoughts and feelings (that which is like unto itself is drawn) my feelings of wanting grew into feelings of desire, passion, and excitement. 


Anytime you identify something you want and give it your attention; your desire will grow and it will feel delicious. (Unless you are focusing on not having what you want). It feels good to notice there is something you want. You want wonderful things! When you feel desire, the Law of Attraction is gathering all of the cooperative components needed to manifest your desire into something you can see and touch. You are more than half the way there. 

 

In this case, my window and my office all came together and it is real and tangible and you can come to my office and know that it is real. Obviously, I have the result I wanted. Not only the window and office space...  other wonderful things that I placed in my "vortex" of desire have worked their way into manifestation. For instance, I have a beautiful office patio area I can use for sessions - or to relax in while I do my documentation.

 

Some of the most fun I ever have is seeing the Law of Attraction at work and having the awareness to understand what is happening! I have been enjoying my life so much! One thing after another - after another flows to me like a river of Joy. It is super fun and I want to share what I know with all of you. 

 

I get to sit right here at my desk (which is also fantastic) at this perfect window every day. And every day I make a point to remember that although I "have" my desire. I still very much want it. I want and appreciate it. I love this window; I am thrilled with my office and I am nearly beside myself with excitement and happiness over my private practice launching. 

 

There is an endless supply of topics to appreciate... so much to feel good about! 

 

Like most people, I always have desires that haven't yet manifested... and some of these things may seem harder to believe in. When I notice and spend energy on the fact that I want something that I do not have yet, it actually makes a barrier. The way to handle this is to trust that what I want is in my "vortex" and all the cooperative components are getting lined up and I need to stop blocking my desires (focusing on not having). But how?

 

I could just distract myself with other thoughts or activities - which is a good thing to do... and I can take, make, find, set aside time to focus on having desires (an awesome office, with great windows and a fun successful private practice) and getting to have them! Want and have - want and have - want and have. Yes! I have what I wanted AND I still very much desire to have it. So every day I have a huge desire that I get to have! And every day I get to have what I want. 

 

My experience of myself over and over is that I get what I want. My belief (a belief is only a thought that you keep thinking) becomes I am a person who gets what I want. Then when (because it will) I think again about the things I want and don't have, I will have faith that it will all work out. I will offer less resistance and when I stop resisting and get out of my own way - amazing things happen.

 

Many of our greatest teachers have said we get what we expect. Those of us who expect to be happy - Are!  

Sunday, July 11, 2021

What Would I Do If I Were Not Afraid?


This is my first blog ever. I am celebrating my birthday with the gift of courage. It may seem like a simple thing.... to write a blog, but keep in mind that there was no such thing as smartphones until my kids were teenagers. I had a car with an 8 track tape player and I can remember as a teen, looking under the seats in my 1967 VW Bug for quarters - when a dollar-in-change would buy enough gas to get me just about anywhere I wanted to go. So, while I am able to figure out a lot of things - technology tasks like this don't come naturally. 

This photo is at my desk in my office. The window looks out on a wall of green and there is a fence keeping my chihuahuas (Magic and Trix) in the yard and acting as a catwalk for little critters, like squirrels, crows, and other various visitors. So this seems like as good of a place to start as any. This window makes me happy, it provides fresh air, amusing viewing of playful creatures. This window represents more than an artfully placed hole in the wall. Just a few months ago, this window did not exist. 

This window represents a new beginning. It is here because my garage is now a fabulous office. The home of Magic Door Counseling Center. This was a Covid-19 project and a launching pad for a dream I have been chasing for years. I have been researching, working, organizing, saving, and launching rockets of desire since I went to college. The dream was to have a private practice where I get to do the work I love, provide virtual/telehealth services, and incorporate traveling all over the world into my career. 

The law of attraction works for me every time. ❤️ I had a clear vision of my dream of one day making this actually happen, I could imagine every aspect, I could feel the happiness and satisfaction even though I didn't know when or how it would all manifest physically. My dreams and desires were right there - waiting for all the cooperative components to fall into place. Then my CPR card expired and I was put on administrative leave for a few days while I waited for my class to renew it. I was not thrilled about it but used that time to meet with my accountant. That was the missing piece. It was clear that I am successful enough and have abundance enough to make this work now! Right now. 

On Friday, I gave notice to my employer that I am resigning from my job. What an interesting whirlwind of feelings! I have been with my employer since 2016 and I love the company, my co-workers, my patients, and the work (Hospice). It feels like jumping out of a perfectly good airplane (I know, I have had that experience!). That takes me back to my theme for today... courage. I took that leap of faith and I feel fantastic!

One of the most powerful questions I have ever asked myself is what I would do if I wasn't afraid? One of the most powerful lessons I have learned is that in this inclusion-based universe of ours you call to yourself the things that you think about - and, most importantly the things that you feel about. This life is truly spectacular! Happy Birthday to me! I am full of joy. I am so grateful to my wife and family for their support and for believing in me. 


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